Physical bullying at school, as depicted in the film Rebecca of Sunnybrook Farm. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
The age old tradition of bullying. no matter how far we have come in the evolution of mankind some things never change and I believe they never will. and bullying is one of them that comes to mined. we could analyze the fact some people who are bully’s have family issues at home, have some sort of learning disability or anger issues.
But when it really comes down to it does all of that truly matter ? so since some indidvuals in school have some sort of psychological problems we must piety them . I think pitying a disturbed person is the wrong approach. making sure they get some help is the right idea.
Before I diagnose these kids in school, let’s look at the nature of fighting. we get involved in a suffer with someone based on misunderstanding, social status, rumors, personal style, persons lack of self confidence/weakness and their over all body size.
Oh let’s not forget you should not talk to that football players girlfriend because even though you guys are just friends she is his property…right ? this one always makes me laugh a thousand chuckles !
All of us know if you are nervous indidvuals in school most people will read it as a weakness even though you may not be nervous about them. you may in fact feel pressure about tests or will I keep up my grades so I can take that 3D animation class next semester .
It could be a number of things, but to the savage cavemen in your school he does not care what your issue is. he can smell your weakness from miles away and must indulge in combating you because your weakness’ makes him absolutely sick to his stomach.
Of course he does not realize this and only feels irritated by you ,so the issue between you and him must be engaged. avoiding the bully will only makes things worse it is always the story no matter what decade you were a kid in.
I am not going to go into the whole of a fight many of you understand how it works and me repeating it to you, I make always be playing a broken record. I will let your guidance counselors handle that lol unless you have been out of school for many years.
Now this next section may seem harsh to some of you but it is for your own good. the survival rate of students these days in social situations is horrible and needs to be fixed period ! ok here comes the harsh reality of it all now. love me or hate either way realize I am speaking the truth through experience, and seeing others go through it the same way.
This is for you high school and college student‘s of the present and future generation’s !
Bullying seems to be overly exposed in society today. and made out to be some major hate crime that deserves the same attention as let’s say cereal killers.
Either you defended yourself win or lose the fight, or you were picked on daily. not just by the bullies, in time even by the ones picked on by the bullies. because you would not defend yourself against any Individual.
I believe in the U.S. the youth meaning you ! is becoming way too soft and overly emotional towards every issue in life. I have had ups and downs as far back as I can remember as I am sure you many of you have had or are having.
Kids today either have no backbone or they commit some crazy ass act like shooting their fellow peers in school. instead of just sucking it up confronting the individual that is harassing them and dealing with them one on one. if the idea of one on one is possible some people will fight you in groups. that way the bully has no chance of losing.
There is even an issue with that, because now you go to jail for fighting in school. which is completely ridicules. taking away someone’s natural way of defense is sicking. maybe you will not fight because let’s say you are an honor role student. if you fight it goes against your record and this could hurt your chances of attending that prestigious college you dream of going to.
If someone is writing blogs creating some sick ass lies about you. well you can either do the same back which some people do. or report it to the site to have it taken down for slander. some sites might not take their content down to be honest because it infringes on the indidvuals freedom of speech. I have had the most disturbing things written about me that would made most people vomit. so there is nothing left in the world that anyone could make up about me. so now I laugh and say do your best wait the best has already been done. all you can do now is writing someone nice about lol
Anyways if you know this person in day to day life, well I say confront them and handle it one on one. go at it and if you can not beat their ass by all means make sure you leave some nice marks on them to remember you by. hopefully they will learn their lesson, most bullies do when the weak person busts their lip or leaves bruises on their flesh.
I am not telling you to fight, I am just saying you must decide what is the best course of action for you
Just remember this the people that talk a big game or shit or how ever you want to phase it. are nothing but pathetic losers, that in reality are no bodies and only feel power when they write blogs,talk shit in social groups
or make videos about you.
I have told indidvuals too meet me in person and let’s discuss their issues with me over a cup of coffee. what happened you may ask ? all of them make up a thousand excuses of why they are too busy or something as come up so no deal. what does that make you think of them ? hopefully you will see they are cowards. and I am willing to bet all of the people picking on you online. are just as pathetic as the losers that have came after me.
Btw I am a small guy 5’9 174 pounds oh no I such a huge monster run !!! I am intimidating lol
I know I will probably be banned from word press or contacted by some non charity group about this article. and told I am handling it the wrong way. really ? am I ?
So it is better for kids to be picked so much that their only release is too shoot up people in a school ? how is that better ?
I have lost many battles , still if I did not at least defend myself once in a while I would have become a huge target or some crazy asshole in the news destroying many peoples lives. because I would not take a swing at a bully. it is better to have scares and bruises dust off your feet and raise up another day. knowing you did your best defending who you are and having honor then running away like a coward.
I ran away a couple times in my past and I still regret it today. because it set me back a couple years. that is why I am sharing my thought’s with you. I have been the weakling picked on even once in a while the bully. and in other times being who I truly am the lone wolf. I not anti social but I prefer a good amount of time by myself.
Another thing I wanted to mention before I end this article. if the rage is too strong and you feel as if you are going to explode ! stat drawing, painting or go out side and beat the hell out of a tree with a baseball bat. play football even if you suck at it ! anything too get all your emotions in check. do not worry the tree will not be mad at you. all life has a creation and destruction process. but thank the tree for letting you release your frustrations on it ok lol
If someone posts nude photos of you on the net, tell yeah I am that sexy you know you want me . play it off as if it does not bother you the bullies win the minute you start to crumble.Last serious thought , if you start running now you may never stop, and develop anxieties and phobia’s beyond your imagination that will messed up enjoyable social and career opportunities you may be passionate about.
When pain and rage builds up, all rational thought is lost ! tell a bully to stick a 2×4 up their ass and smile every time they have someone pull out all of those splinters lol
I know I did not cover the issue of kids with psychological issues , I will save that topic for another time.
Thanks for reading enjoy your day or night wherever you may be in this crazy chaotic world !
By Gino Vaglivielo